Enter my Gladness
by Jason Tomlinson
Five addresses for five years by the time I was five
going into kindergarten I didn’t know that I would dive
into a depth deeper than many if not most
an exceptionality I treasured a difference that I would boast
naively to be sure for I leaned too far one way
and a balanced horizon didn’t appear day after day after day
the truth is I didn’t know anything different than what was set before me
and the full truth wouldn’t be realized for years blinded by all I could see
I was the new kid in third grade and fourth and fifth and sixth as well
and I never even slowed down to think no one ever asked me to tell
what it felt like but I feel now what I was missing all along
what I was feeling wasn’t necessarily right nor was it necessarily wrong
but I was feeling and that in itself is its own end
and I needed a parent a pastor a teacher indeed I needed a friend
who could be an ear a guide a sage
to help me navigate transitions at such an early age
but their were none and at this point I don’t find it useful to accuse or to blame
my parents or anyone else but instead I’m compelled to name
what I felt back then even though the years have come and gone
because if I don’t acknowledge the sadness and hurt then it will go ever on
unchecked and unrestricted to become cancerous inside
swallowing me whole instead a massive whelming tide
little Jason still needs to be heard I am eleven within
I listen to my little heart and there is value in being my own friend
I need no further validation than hearing my own sadness
no other man has walked where I have walked no other can enter my gladness
This makes me very sad for you
Thank you so much, mom. Me too.
Thank you for this deep and arresting poem, Jason. I’ve read it four times already. You speak on behalf of a lot of people who think they are alone. I forwarded it to my friends who work with third culture kids (TCKs), as well as to Alethea and Lewis.
Oh my word. Thank you so much, Ed. Your support and kindness mean the world.